Today, I received many messages on my phone, mails in my account wishing me a happy women’s day. I thank you all for the lovely wishes send to me 😊 and likewise, I wish every woman around the world, a very Happy Women’s Day 😀 . Be proud of what you are today and never count yourself less in comparison to anyone.
Many of us must have bought gifts to delight the special woman of our life. A few people may have bought a jewellery set for her, some may have bought a sari or a dress to gift her or any other fancy and expensive gifts that you think would make her happy. But, have you ever thought what does she really need? Go back in the time that have passed by, try to recollect, what had she told you about the thing she actually needs from you? Can you think of it? Let me help you a bit. When was the last time you appreciated her for the food she had prepared and served to you? When was the last time, you took some time from your busy schedule and took her out on a picnic or for a movie or shopping or just for a simple dinner or even on a simple walk? When was the last time, you said her thank you for being there for you whenever you need anything? When was the last time, you kissed her and told her how much you love her? If you remember and have done this thing every day, then you don’t need to buy any special gift for her today , as these little gestures which you are doing for her would already make her feel special and loved. She would be celebrating women’s day, virtually every day in her life.
But, for those who can’t think of any of these things I have written above, you really need to think, whether the gift you have bought for her is enough or does she really need all this? Yes, diamonds are the best friend of any woman. Yes, we love surprises and gifts. But, beyond all these expensive and material things, we would prefer having some respect and time from you. Time, respect, love is priceless and it is the special gift any woman would love to receive. A small appreciation for the food we have cooked, a kiss and a tight hug for letting us know that you are happy with us, some respect that we deserve just like you and some time of your precious life. Yes, sometimes we may not have cooked properly, but, that doesn’t give you right to yell at us. Because no one is perfect like the way, even you won’t be at your work! We recognize that you are busy in earning money and other responsibilities you have, I understand you and thank you for performing your responsibilities so well, but, don’t complain that you don’t get your “Me time” and that you can’t spare some time for us on weekends. Because even you should remember that we have been busy too the whole week after performing our household duties or our job and even we get less “me time” same like you. But, we never complain about it as spending time with you would please us more and make us more happy. As being with you is the most important part of our life and we don’t want to miss it.
Thanks to all, who already do a great deal for their woman 😀 , but, those who think just buying expensive gifts and wishing her on this day would be enough than you are wrong. Rather, just try to say I love you to her, hug her and tell her thank you for being there always, give a kiss on her forehead and tell them you are there for her always. Respect her for what she is and what she wants to be in her life. That would be the most expensive gift that you could give your special lady and make her smile 😊.