Life lessons 2

Loving someone is easy,

But maintaining that love is hard.

Making promises are easy,

But keeping one is difficult.

So love someone only if you know that you would love them for lifetime and would stand by them in good times or bad times.

Make promises only if you are able to fulfil,

Don’t give false hope to people who truly believe you,

Because of attachments and relations, they will trust in you and give you a chance,

But if you hurt them, they will be shattered badly,

And might be it will take ages for them to trust someone back again.

One should always remember people who never stood by them,

Remember those people who never fought for them,

Never forget people who were not there when you needed them the most.

Such people make you realise to not trust somebody easily,

To not enter into any relationship blindly and get attached so much that you are affected by them very badly later!

They teach you lessons in many ways and one should not forget those experiences for a lifetime.

– Heta Gala Naidu


Life lessons

In life, we have people whom we love tremendously,

We sacrifice things in life for their happiness.

But a few people never look back at us,

They run behind others,

They treat us same as others.

They see the hardship we face while doing things for their happiness,

But they don’t appreciate the hardship.

They get so immune with us not complaining once,

And continue to lead the life the way it is.

The sooner we realise,

It’s better for us.

Sometimes it is very important to let go a few people from our life,

Not because we don’t love them anymore,

As it might be difficult to stop loving them,

But one should start respecting themselves

And work for their own peace of mind.

– Heta Gala Naidu


You will be always remembered Srideviji

I got up today to a very shocking and a devastating news of the sudden demise of legendary actress Sridevi due to cardiac arrest. At first, I couldn’t believe what I heard or read on various social media sites. I hoped that this news turns out to be a rumor, but that just didn’t happen. She was no more and every Indian, every fan of hers had to accept that.

Since I was a kid, I have watched many movies of her like Mr India, Chalbaaz, Sadma (which is one of my favorite movies), Judaai and many more and I have thoroughly enjoyed every movie of hers. She is one of the few actresses, I admire and look up to.

We lost one of the biggest Bollywood icons, superstar, greatest legend. She will be missed a lot and remembered always. Rest in Peace Srideviji.

One of my favourite songs of her film Sadma

Zindagi Gale laga le


Happy Valentines Day

With your entry in my life ❤️,

My family picture seems to complete now☺️.

Your presence irritates me at times 😤,

But your absence always makes me feel sad and empty within 😒.

The tea ☕️that you make😀,

The food 🍲that you cook,

Not only fills my stomach,

But also fills my heart with more respect and love for you😘.

Thanks for coming into my life👫.

And making it more beautiful 😗🙂🙃😁.

Heta Gala Naidu


Things I feel my BabyKiyaan had!

Hi friends,
I am back! So right now I am making tea  for myself and I am missing my two years old nephew #BabyKiyaan a lot because usually he is the one who makes tea for me! Yes yes I am not lying, but exaggerating a bit😝. But mind you he does help me in making the tea as he wants me to make him sit on the kitchen platform whenever I am making it and give all the ingredients that needs to be in vessel for making tea. Sometimes I have to clean the kitchen platform five times ☹️ because of the spices spilled around or milk, sometimes I have to drink a small cup of tea with 1 tablespoon of tea masala (spices) in it because my baby loves adding ingredients again and again  so much that I need to divert him to take the spoon out of his hands 🤣😅. He even keeps his favourite movie Baahubali on hold to just make tea for me. You have no idea how much Baahubali means to him 🤨😉.
Right now he is enjoying in Goa with his parents and I am missing him a lot. Sob Sob 😢
 On the other hand, I or even I can say many of you might feel that our childhood times was way better than today’s generation kids. I am talking about the era of 90’s when there were no cellphones, not every household had color TV( including mine ), listening songs on radio. I mean it was so simple. Basically, I miss a few things and I wish my Baby Kiyaan had that kind of start in his life. I will list down some of them below.
 The biggest thing that I feel is today every kid is glued to cellphones so much that they miss out the fun of outdoor activities 😏. I mean my baby is just two years old, but he knows how to open You Tube and browse the videos 🤔. I mean he has his favourite list too! I as a child use to have strict timings for watching TV and we weren’t allowed to watch for more than an hour a day or even touch the remote!
The next thing is food. My mother didn’t have to struggle to make us eat. I have two  siblings and still it wasn’t tough for her. Initially we use to live in a joint family and we use to sit down on the floor to eat. Today, it’s a task to make a child eat. We literally have to run behind them, then give them their favourite thing to do so that we can feed him. Phew 😓!
Cartoons! What’s with Motu Patlu cartoon 😣. I don’t know how kids like to watch that cartoon, but the fact is fact and so does my BabyKiyaan enjoys watching Motu Patlu. Though he isn’t a fan of this cartoon, but he still likes to watch. In our times, there use to be Tom and Jerry, Donald Duck and such cartoons were way better than what kids like to watch today!
Today’s kids are taught to be competitive at a very young age. I mean we never had playgroups! Seriously, I still don’t  get the idea of kids entering into playgroup. They play with other kids, watch You Tube for nursing rhymes and a parent has to pay lakhs of money for that thing! Believe me, we were taught all those things free of cost at home and we had great teachers like Grandparents, uncles and obviously our own parents for all those things 🙂😌. We use to play a lot down our building like cricket, badminton, football and now it’s a task to find a place to play in our society because of all the parked cars 😒🙁.
No doubt, I love my Kiyaan a lot and no words would be enough to describe my insane love for him 😅. He does give us hard time sometimes, but he is a true gem, a pure soul and he doesn’t know how much his hug makes our soul feel better. I do miss many things for him and wanted him to have that experience where there was no cellphone, no color TV and only humans actual present mattered! Though technology has helped people in many ways today, to stay in touch who live far far away, to get things way too quickly but it does have its own disadvantages which I feel is not good. So does somebody feels the same way or is it only me 🧐. Anyways for now bye bye. Do pass your comments and let me know what your thoughts 🙂.

Thoughts for the day..!

We cannot comment on someone else’s choice,

When we don’t know what made them do that.

We can understand that only if we are in their situation.


It’s easy to ask for a favor from someone,

But how much that favor costs that someone, you cannot count that.

As only the one who did favor to you would know the actual cost he had to pay for that!


Don’t hurt people who gave you a second chance in their life,

Even after you betrayed them or broke their trust.

As life won’t give a second chance to everyone.


When someone gives away their precious gift for you,

Hold those people in your life.

As these people are rare,

Who sacrifices things to just see you happy.

-Heta Gala Naidu


A simple post

Hey friends,

Hope all you guys are doing good! Wish you all a Happy Makarsankranti and Happy Pongal 😀. I am enjoying my little Pongal vacation in Chennai right now. The first month of the new year and I am already travelling around 🙂. January is already packed with Kutch as my next destination after Chennai🙂.

I am here with my family for the celebration of Pongal festival and to attend my friend’s wedding.

All happy faces in one frame🙂. This little pumpkin, my nephew Baby Kiyaan has come along with us for his first Pongal and he is enjoying a lot. Though handling him sometimes becomes tough 🤨, but his smile makes things worth. He constantly nags me for many things😓🤪, but his embrace comforts me. Sometimes, I just wonder what will I do without him or my husband or my mother🙄. Haha😋

Anyways guys for now only this much. Hope you guys have already started working on things which you wanted to start in this new year. However, life is, don’t forget to smile! The smile is all that one needs, so don’t forget to carry one on your lips 🙂