Hope all of you doing good😀? Well its Diwali time in India, and the preparations have already started😊. Almost a month prior, cleaning of our house becomes utmost important for us. Almost in every household, before Diwali this is the most important thing that rings a bell🙍🏽and obviously later would be cooking delicious different sweet desserts👩🏽🍳.
Now people who don’t know what is this festival all about, I would like to say something about it. Diwali is the Hindu festival of lights which signifies the triumph of good over evil. It is a five day celebration where people decorate their homes and light them to show the power of light over darkness. Gifts and sweets are bought and exchanged with families and friends. Rangolis are made in homes and the house is lightened by diyas all around.
Now I and my husband got time yesterday for cleaning our home and I know that we are already late😕! So we had to clean in a day’s time and that’s a big task in itself😐. So we started around 1pm in the afternoon and without any breaks in between, we went on constant till 7pm and we made it, we cleaned our house🤓. Still, we had to shop for a few things and after quickly taking shower, doing our evening Pooja we left for our other task. We were just on water the complete day and were very hungry🙁, but we made sure we bought our stuff first and then thought of relaxing! We came back at home late 12:30am, with happiness on our face of making sure our Diwali is full of lights and happiness around😄.
Though today, we got up with severe pains in our body🤕🤧😓 and still we have to do a few things before our Diwali days start. Doing things together, be it cleaning or shopping or decorating, I enjoy it completely and thanks to my husband who made sure I am not alone in anything👫. Love him for doing everything possible and not thinking that it’s only my job to do. Celebrating Diwali together with your family adds up to your happiness and I will surely miss my family who is on a small trip to our village and especially my nephew Kiyaan 😘who is too away on a trip. Will upload some photos soon on my blog 🙂.
So guys Wish you a very Happy Diwali🎇🎉 and enjoy your Diwali and be safe and let others be safe too. Spread Happiness 🙂.
Don’t ask questions to someone,
Whose answer you know is going to hurt you.
Because it won’t have any impact on the person who is replying,
But it will definitely affect you
And hurt you within.
It’s not possible to make everyone understand,
And if you have to repeat the same every time,
You need to realize that
The person is never going to understand you or your feelings.
So one must accept the fact and stop expecting from others.
Sometimes you are happy,
By seeing others happy.
One does everything to please them, to maintain their happiness.
But at times, those things come at a cost.
The path of making others happy is not easy,
One has to sacrifice a lot,
Also sometimes one’s own happiness.
Making others happy is good,
But it could cost a lifetime sorrow for some.
Even after all this,
The most difficult part of the life is,
Keeping a smile on the face,
So that no one can see the actual darkness lying within you.
–Heta Gala Naidu
Reliving the moments, I had with you,
Each place I visited reminded me of you.
Those lanes, our long walks, the beautiful weather,
The bench on which we sat and had witnessed the beautiful nature.
Though you are far,
Let me tell you I miss you.
All I wish now is to see you soon,
Share my journey, which was incomplete without you.
-Heta Gala Naidu
Today, I had a fun filled day with this little champ 😘
My nephew, My baby Kiyaan, whom I love a lot ❤️. In this insane and fast pace world, you are the only person who keeps my sanity in check✅. You relieve your aunt’s stress by just embracing her and kissing on her cheeks ☺️. You just make her day, when you come running to her🏃🏻. The excitement in your eyes when you see her, flatters her completely 😍.
It’s because of you, I got to visit a place that, I had been, when I was a small kid. Thanks for reminding me and taking me into my childhood flashback🤓.
I love to hear when you learn new words taught by me🙂🙃. Today, I enjoyed watching you repeating the names of different birds and animals, I taught you in the much cutest way😁. Thanks for coming into this world and enlightening my life😃. Love you😗.
It’s better to face the reality,
Instead of living on a hope for a change
As a few people won’t ever change.
Wasting your energy on the wrong person will only affect your peace,
But it won’t have any impact on that soul.
The sooner we accept
The better our lives would be.
The more we expect from such people,
The more we are making our life tough.
Sometimes letting your guard down,
Giving up would be a good step.
As we cannot make everyone happy,
So it’s better to move on
And stay away from such negative energy for our betterment.
–Heta Gala Naidu
I am very happy to hear the verdict of Nirbhaya’s case that was out a few days back. After a five long years, Nirbhaya got justice. Though she is no more with us, but today actually she might be resting in peace. Nirbhaya’s parents got what they wanted for their daughter’s justice.
The Indian law does not permit to publicise the rape victim’s name and so the victim(Jyoti Singh) was named as Nirbhaya which means fearless. On 16th December 2012, an incident that took place was broadly denounced in India as well as abroad. A 23 years old physiotherapy intern Jyoti Singh was gang raped in a moving private bus and severely tormented by six men. She was travelling with one of her male friends who was beaten with an iron rod by those rapists. The rapists then threw them out of the moving bus. They were found by a passerby who then informed the Delhi police. The police took them to a hospital where later Nirbhaya was kept on mechanical ventilation. The doctors found various injury marks all over her body. One of the accused even confessed that a rope like object (assumed to be her intestines) was pulled out of the woman by other accused in the bus. Two blood-stained metal rods were retrieved from the bus and medical staff confirmed that “”it was this object which was used to penetrate her private parts, uterus and digestive organs to wipe off traces of semen, which could have been used as an evidence incase the victim survived the brutality.” Eleven days after the incident the woman was transferred to one of the Singapore hospitals for emergency treatment, but due to her severe injuries she died two days later.
Remembering that incident once again, still enrages me. I feel that any punishment given to those accused will not suffice. They are animals in the form of humans and I feel like abusing them repetitively. I feel these monsters should have been castrated and asked to live with that pain forever. Because the pain through which any girl goes through after such gruesome incident is beyond our imagination. She will be reminded of that incident again and again until she gets the justice. There are many girls, women out there who are still waiting for their justice and are not aware after how many days or years they will get justice.
On May 5th, the Supreme court upheld Delhi High Court Death Sentence verdict in the case of Nirbhaya incident and rejected the mercy plea of the four remaining rapists(One of the rapists had committed suicide inside the Tihar jail and one was a teenager who was given three years of life imprisonment as he comes under the Juvenile justice) saying this is the rarest of the rare crime that shook the conscience of the entire nation.