Has it ever happened to you, that you are so involved in a problem that you are not able to get out of it? You try hard, but it just feels impossible to be free and be at peace.? You start feeling negative and can’t think anything that has positivity in it. People around you might ask you to stop over thinking about a situation and stop being pessimistic. They ask you to busy yourself in something or do some walk or yoga. They are not wrong. They are trying their best to show you a picture of having hope. But it’s you who would know how bad the situation is and how much you have tried hard to be out of it.
Yes, I have been in this and there was a huge breakdown where nothing worked for me. I started being more negative and got scared about thinking something good. I tried to tackle my problems and found solutions to it. But, some or other always came as a hurdle in between me and my goal. It took a very long time for me to come out of that situation and at that time, I told myself “You did it.” I don’t regret breaking down, because it was the worst phase of my life, I am still trying to cope with it.” But I realized one thing, that one should keep a hope within that one can do it. I know sometimes the situation don’t let you think straight and that’s ok. But don’t lose hope. I am telling you from my experience, things will work out eventually and your hardwork, your patience will pay off. That one instance has now given me a hope that my other problems would get resolved soon, but I shouldn’t lose hope and should think positive that it will happen.