It’s better to face the reality,
Instead of living on a hope for a change
As a few people won’t ever change.
Wasting your energy on the wrong person will only affect your peace,
But it won’t have any impact on that soul.
The sooner we accept
The better our lives would be.
The more we expect from such people,
The more we are making our life tough.
Sometimes letting your guard down,
Giving up would be a good step.
As we cannot make everyone happy,
So it’s better to move on
And stay away from such negative energy for our betterment.
–Heta Gala Naidu
Sorry has no importance,
When said without any feelings.
Sorry has no value,
When used as a defense to avoid arguments.
Sorry makes no sense,
When one does not consider other people’s sentiments.
Sorry has no meaning,
When one has to say it for the same old mistakes.
If somebody is truly sorry,
They won’t repeat the same mistake again.
To Prove that you are sorry, don’t just say it,
Let your actions speak that you truly mean it.
–Heta Gala Naidu
A couple days back, I was out with my family watching a Bollywood motion picture Baar Baar Dekho. It’s a romantic movie where the male protagonist gets to relive his future that could change his present and also could help him make his life better. He is a mathematical virtuoso by profession who calculates every step in his life logically and who ignores the true meaning of life. He loves his to be wife, his childhood sweetheart, but has his own doubts due to which he wasn’t certain to marry her. But a small travel to his future allows him to rethink what he could miss in his life due to his wrong choices.
Though, I did not enjoy watching the movie, but I actually liked the message behind the story. What if we all got a chance to peep into our future and got to see what lies in there for us? What if we got a chance to correct our mistakes, which would affect our future? What if we got a chance to make our future better? Wouldn’t that be exciting? We all have our regrets. A thought would come in our mind of backtracking and changing things to make our future better with fewer regrets or no regrets. But in reality, we cannot undo what we have already done. All of us have our own priorities. We dream big and work for our better future. We pick our vocations accordingly and work hard to achieve our goals. Careers are imperative, no doubt, but while achieving those big dreams of our life, we sometimes tend to forget to live in our present. We sacrifice many little things in our way to fulfill our goal. Sacrifice is a part of everybody’s life, but we shouldn’t get so involved in achieving our goal that we forget to feel the small happiness in our lives. To make our future brighter, we forget to live in our present. We cannot undo our past, but we can learn a lot from it nor can we foresee our future and plan accordingly. The only thing we can do is to live today and we should do that to fullest. Discovering joy in little things is as important as achieving our bigger dreams.
I won’t say to not worry for our future because that is something we cannot change, but we can start to live our present and feel all the happiness that comes our way. We should be there for our loved ones as they are more important than anything in our life. Instead of regretting in the future, it’s better to work on our mistakes or wrong choices and live a happy present, which will make our future brighter with less regrets. Don’t you think?
Sometimes Sorry is too small word to heal the pain one has been through.
Forgiving becomes difficult,
As the pain one feels overcome the ability to forgive.
Screaming on the top of voice that you are hurt,
Would be meaningless if a person is deaf towards your problems.
All you can do is stop sharing what you feel,
Because to some, your feelings, your pain have no place.
The sooner you accept,
Lesser would be your suffering.
–Heta Gala Naidu
I believe that If a person genuinely realises his mistake,
He won’t repeat the same mistake again.
A wise man will learn from his past mistakes and won’t repeat the same in future.
As Sometimes it gets hard to trust a person again and again,
And the only reason we trust them back,
Would be our deep love for them.
The sooner they understand,
Lesser would be damage done to the relationship we share.
Respect yourself more than others,
Never stop loving, but love yourself more than others.
It might happen that people start taking you for granted,
Assuming you won’t ever leave them.