Life lessons 2

Loving someone is easy,

But maintaining that love is hard.

Making promises are easy,

But keeping one is difficult.

So love someone only if you know that you would love them for lifetime and would stand by them in good times or bad times.

Make promises only if you are able to fulfil,

Don’t give false hope to people who truly believe you,

Because of attachments and relations, they will trust in you and give you a chance,

But if you hurt them, they will be shattered badly,

And might be it will take ages for them to trust someone back again.

One should always remember people who never stood by them,

Remember those people who never fought for them,

Never forget people who were not there when you needed them the most.

Such people make you realise to not trust somebody easily,

To not enter into any relationship blindly and get attached so much that you are affected by them very badly later!

They teach you lessons in many ways and one should not forget those experiences for a lifetime.

– Heta Gala Naidu


Life lessons

In life, we have people whom we love tremendously,

We sacrifice things in life for their happiness.

But a few people never look back at us,

They run behind others,

They treat us same as others.

They see the hardship we face while doing things for their happiness,

But they don’t appreciate the hardship.

They get so immune with us not complaining once,

And continue to lead the life the way it is.

The sooner we realise,

It’s better for us.

Sometimes it is very important to let go a few people from our life,

Not because we don’t love them anymore,

As it might be difficult to stop loving them,

But one should start respecting themselves

And work for their own peace of mind.

– Heta Gala Naidu


Thoughts for the day..!

We cannot comment on someone else’s choice,

When we don’t know what made them do that.

We can understand that only if we are in their situation.


It’s easy to ask for a favor from someone,

But how much that favor costs that someone, you cannot count that.

As only the one who did favor to you would know the actual cost he had to pay for that!


Don’t hurt people who gave you a second chance in their life,

Even after you betrayed them or broke their trust.

As life won’t give a second chance to everyone.


When someone gives away their precious gift for you,

Hold those people in your life.

As these people are rare,

Who sacrifices things to just see you happy.

-Heta Gala Naidu


A Candle of Hope

Sometimes we have to face a situation that we never think would occur in our life. We cry, we feel sad, but we have to go through it and face it no matter what. If we run away from the situation, we are avoiding the problem, but in reality our problem won’t leave us. So What should one do? The answer lies within you. First, there won’t always be happy moments in our life. One will have memories to cherish, happiness to celebrate, sadness and bad times that will help to learn a lesson or feel a new experience. In all this, one should try to move on with life with a hope that the time will be pass and soon the good times will replace the bad times. So just the way Diwali signifies the victory of good over evil, light a candle of hope in your life and that light will help you move on and will enhance the positivity within you. 

-Heta Gala Naidu


Sometimes giving up is a boon

It’s better to face the reality,

Instead of living on a hope for a change

As a few people won’t ever change.

Wasting your energy on the wrong person will only affect your peace,

But it won’t have any impact on that soul.

The sooner we accept 

The better our lives would be.

The more we expect from such people,

The more we are making our life tough.

Sometimes letting your guard down,

Giving up would be a good step.

As we cannot make everyone happy,

So it’s better to move on 

And stay away from such negative energy for our betterment.

Heta Gala Naidu



Sorry has no importance,

When said without any feelings.

Sorry has no value,

When used as a defense to avoid arguments.

Sorry makes no sense,

When one does not consider other people’s sentiments.

Sorry has no meaning,

When one has to say it for the same old mistakes.

If somebody is truly sorry,

They won’t repeat the same mistake again.

To Prove that you are sorry, don’t just say it,

Let your actions speak that you truly mean it.

Heta Gala Naidu


Live Today for a Happy Tomorrow

A couple days back, I was out with my family watching a Bollywood motion picture Baar Baar Dekho. It’s a romantic movie where the male protagonist gets to relive his future that could change his present and also could help him make his life better. He is a mathematical virtuoso by profession who calculates every step in his life logically and who ignores the true meaning of life. He loves his to be wife, his childhood sweetheart, but has his own doubts due to which he wasn’t certain to marry her. But a small travel to his future allows him to rethink what he could miss in his life due to his wrong choices. 
Though, I did not enjoy watching the movie, but I actually liked the message behind the story. What if we all got a chance to peep into our future and got to see what lies in there for us? What if we got a chance to correct our mistakes, which would affect our future? What if we got a chance to make our future better? Wouldn’t that be exciting? We all have our regrets. A thought would come in our mind of backtracking and changing things to make our future better with fewer regrets or no regrets. But in reality, we cannot undo what we have already done. All of us have our own priorities. We dream big and work for our better future. We pick our vocations accordingly and work hard to achieve our goals. Careers are imperative, no doubt, but while achieving those big dreams of our life, we sometimes tend to forget to live in our present. We sacrifice many little things in our way to fulfill our goal. Sacrifice is a part of everybody’s life, but we shouldn’t get so involved in achieving our goal that we forget to feel the small happiness in our lives. To make our future brighter, we forget to live in our present. We cannot undo our past, but we can learn a lot from it nor can we foresee our future and plan accordingly. The only thing we can do is to live today and we should do that to fullest. Discovering joy in little things is as important as achieving our bigger dreams. 

I won’t say to not worry for our future because that is something we cannot change, but we can start to live our present and feel all the happiness that comes our way. We should be there for our loved ones as they are more important than anything in our life. Instead of regretting in the future, it’s better to work on our mistakes or wrong choices and live a happy present, which will make our future brighter with less regrets. Don’t you think?